Remember

Don’t remind me
how long it has been.
Remind me that you are here
for me, with me, everytime.

Don’t talk about
how badly you miss them.
Sit with me instead
and talk about their favourite memories.

Don’t ask me
to be brave or strong.
Ask me instead
how I am feeling today.

Don’t hesitate
to ask me about my plans.
Help me instead
put my plans in place.

Don’t walk away yet
and let me wallow in my pain.
I may whine and cry and be shallow
but for now, be my supporting cane.