Change urself!

Sometimes you don’t know if should change others to suit you or should change yourself to suit others.
If you change others, that is pure meanness of your heart..if you change yoursef, it is a compromise.
If your friends want you to change, introspect whether it is a desred change. If a stranger wants you to change, ignore it; the person has no authority to do that.
If you want your friend to change a certain thing, introspect and see if it’s a desired one, would not changing it make him/her a lesser gud friend of your’s?
If you want a stranger to change something to be able to become your friend, forget it; it’s just not worth the effort.
At the end of the day, we are all humans subjected to change and evolution. We just happen to meet people on this journey of ours called ‘life’ who make this process of change faster or slower.
I’m expecting an array of confused looks after people read this post. None of anything stated above is based on some statistics or research done on test cases. It’s all straight from my heart and experience. So, I do not expect anyone to try to ‘change’ my opinion. 🙂